Anh Lam ! em xin loi anh , tai vi em ko biet trang we cua anh , em cung vua biet duoc day ,anh co khoe ko .Em nho luc anh ve VIET NAM , thi luc do em con nho lam em chang biet gi ca , va luc do em thay vui lam ,em thay anh choi vap tay voi anh Qua ,anh manh lam .ty em ko co thuong xuyen gap anh ,nhung em cung thuong nghe Noi ke ve anh nhieu lam ,anh lam 1 nguoi rat tot, va thuong em moi nguoi,va ty anh em minh ko chua bao gio ngoi tam su voi nhau lan nao ,ma chi nghe nhung nguoi trong gia dnh minh noi ve anh thoi,anh la 1 nguoi anh ma trong gia dinh em kinh trong nhat .em rat la thuong tiet em uoc gi duoc ngoi tam su ben anh va em se ke het nhung chuyen buon la em cho anh nghe va anh cung vay .Va anh Lam oi em da Cuoi Vo roi cung duoc 2 thang day ,va chung em song nhau hanh phuc lam .em da lon roi ko nhu hoi nho luc anh ve nua dau ,gio thi chac ko con co hoi nua dau phai ko anh.Thoi tam biet anh{Hen mai gap lai} chuc anh vui ve………../////////
Hi Lam,
Lam khoe khong? Tai rat xin loi vi den bay gio moi viet duoc vai dong cho Lam. Nho luc Lam ve Viet Nam, Lam choi voi moi nguoi rat vui, Lam choi Vat Tay ( Gat Tay) voi Qua, roi voi cu Van, hinh nhu Lam win het thi phai, Lam rat manh. Now tuy Lam da di xa, but hinh anh cua Lam van luon con trong moi nguoi, nhat la Ba cua Lam.
We all miss you!
anh Lam^ thi ra anh da~ ra di ma em ko biet ko ngo` anh da~ di roi, anh da~ ra di ma de~ lai niem thuong xot cho ca~ gia dinh`, toi chot bay gio em doc duoc tam su cua bac7 em moi biet rag` anh da~ (chet) ma cai ra di nay hinh nhu em cung wen lang~ bay gio dc vao trang wed nay tuy nhien anh ko nhan dc loi nhan’ cua em nhung em mong sao anh o~ tren troi` dc binh yen va xin anh dung co wen cong duc’ cua bac7(cha) cua anh, loi tam su cua bac7 khien em rat xuc dong truoc nhung~ loi` noi’ tam su het suc dau kho~ nay`, Anh Lam^ anh Lam^ hay~ nho’ den cong on nay` nha anh Lam^. Em se~ thuong xuyen vao trang wed nay viet vai` loi tam su tuy anh ko nhan dc loi nhan nay` nhung em van~ mai~ viet cho den khi em buon chan’ thoi..?!………?>
LAM^ YEU^ CUA DADDY
Ba con nho cach day 5 nam , cung vao thang nay khi ma bac si cho gia dinh minh biet la con da mang 1 chung benh nguy hiem nhu vay , ba that su khong tin cho lam , ba cu nghi la ho dang co su lam lang nao do , chu con cua ba tai sao lai mang chung benh nhu vay chu , ba hoan toan khong tin gi ca , nhung cuoi cung gia dinh minh va ban than con cung phai chap nhan su that cho du su that do den voi gia dinh minh va ban than con vo cung tan nhan qua di thoi …..the roi su that van la su that con phai mang 1 chung benh ma tren the gian nay ai nghe cung so ca … sau 7 thang con cua ba da co gang , chieu dung moi dau kho de chua tri , nhin thay con nhung ngay thang do Ba vo cung dau trong long nhieu lam , tuy ngoai mieng cu noi con khong sao dau , chi de cho con an tam ma thoi , chu trong long Ba nhu da chet di1 phan than the cua Ba roi ,, roi ngay thang troi qua …….. con da khong qua duoc tai kiep ma CHUA da danh sang cho tung nguoi ….con da ra di , su ra di cua con , la ca 1 bau troi sup do trong tam hon cua Ba do con …..,,, hon 1 thang con nam trong ICU , con muon noi nhieu deu voi gia dinh voi Ba Ma va cac em con va moi nguoi sung quanh con nhieu lam ,,,. the ma con khong noi duoc 1 cau nao … de roi con bo lai tat ca , bo lai nhung gi ma con lam chua xong ,…nhung su yeu thuong cua moi nguoi …. nhung buon vui ma trong cuoc doi cua con ….. nhung gi con muon lam ,,ma lam chua duoc … con da de lai biet bao la thuong nho cua moi nguoi … roi con ve voi CHUA , con co biet khong sau ngay con di roi gia dinh minh cung tan nat ca ,,, nguoi ta loi dung su tin cua ba de roi di vao gia dinh cua minh ma pha di tat ca … nen ba khong biet ai tot ca con oi cho nguoi ta la 1 linh muc di nua .. Ba cung vi tin ten linh muc do ma bay gio gia dinh minh moi ra nong noi nay , thoi vai hang goi den con trong thang 4 nay daddy cua con alllway love you LAM^
Hi Lam, it has been a long time since I visited you. I have been really busy with work and everything. I hope you can forgive me. Life has been really difficult lately for me, have been feeling really stressed and tired, up to a point of breaking. I try to take it one day at a time. Thinking of you always makes me feel better. You always seem to make things better with how you are. I really miss you.
Dearest Lam,
Miss You! Your dad is currently at my family’s house, having a great time. He just told me about your website. I wanted you to know that he is very happy. He talks to me about you all the time. You’re always miss, and know we are always thinking of you.
Hey there dear brother of mine…. today is a very sad day since the world has again lost another great person. It makes me so sad because it brings me back to the day we lost you all over again….. I know that with you, Larry Nguyen, will be just fine. Hope you’re doing good. I miss you so much…. words cannot even describe how much…..
Our prayers and thoughts go out to Larry (Linh) Nguyen, his family and loved ones. May your sweet soul rest in peace.
Lam con ! thank Lam^ , toi^! qua con da ve tham BA , daddy sooo much happy , Ba thay con rat vui va cuoi hoai , rieng Ba khi gap con Ba khoc rat nhieu , co le lau qua khong gap duoc con , noi cho cung Ba rat la vui do LAM^ , neu co thoi gian ve tham Ba con nhe , daddy love you LAM^
Lam con ! bay gio la nam con HEO , neu gio nay con van con o voi Ba thi con cung da 27 tuoi , co le con cung lap gia dinh roi , TONY da lay NINA roi do con , dau nam con HEO DADDY chuc con vui ve va lam viec ben CHUA , Ba lixi cho con , lau lam roi , qua ban nen con khong ve tham ba , thoi Ba thong cam cho con do , rieng tat ca gia dinh minh van khoe do con ,Ba rat la nho den con , daddy love you LAM ,
daddy love you HAPPY NEWYEAR
Toi chi la 1 nguoi tinh co ghe ngang qua day, doc nhung dong tam su cua gia dinh, va ban be cua ban, toi rat la xuc dong. Khong biet vi sao ma Lam ra di qua som de lai bao nhieu thuong nho cho dang sanh thanh. Toi khong sao cam duoc nuoc mat. Ngam ngui va tiec thuong cho su mat mat lon lao cua Bac trai va gia dinh. Toi xin thanh that chia buon.
HAPPYNEWYEAR TO YOU LAM^
Lam^ con thoi gian qua con da xa gia dinh , cung may la moi nguoi da tro lai cuoc song binh thuong , rieng daddy cu nghi , khong the nao dung len duoc voi su mat con va moi nguoi chung quanh da lam cho Ba dau buon rat nhieu , nhung roi Bacon phai lo may em con nen Ba co gang cau xin CHUA da cho Ba dung len va moi viec da xong , bay gio Ba va Ma con moi nguoi da co cuoc song moi , du cho cuoc song moi the nao di nua Ba van tiec nui cuoc song cua Ba va gia dinh Ba , Ba da co cong tao dung len gan 25 nam the ma chi trong phut choc nguoi ta da da pha di su hanh phuc cua gia dinh Ba , ho da dang la nguoi lam viec cho CHUA , vi Ba la con nguoi binh thuong nen khong biet duoc ho dang lam viec cho SATAN , vi the ma Ba da de ho vao gia dinh Ba ma pha di tat ca , thoi thi tat ca cung da xong 1 kiep nguoi , co le ngay ma con roi xa gia dinh cung la ngay Ba phai chieu su dau kho ma nguoi doi da danh cho Ba , mong sao tren TROI con hieu duoc long Ba luc nao cung luon luon nho va yeu thuong con nhieu lam , nam moi chuc con vui ve lam viec cho CHUA , cau nguyen cho gia dinh minh con nhe BA CUA CON LOVE YOU
Lam con ! the la con da xa Ba va may em 4 nam 1 thang va 2 ngay roi , su thuong yeu^ cua Ba , voi con tat ca da nam sau^ trong TIM cua Ba , cho du den cuoi cuoc doi cua Ba di nua, Ba cung khong^the nao quen^ con duoc dau^ LAM , cu moi nam gan^ den nhung ngay HOLYDAY long Ba vo cung buon , cho du nhung ngay nhu vay thi tat ca moi nguoi ai cung vui ve , va sum hop voi gia dinh , rieng Ba cua con luon luon buon , va nho toi con , bay gio Ba chang biet phai lam gi hon , ngoi day viet vai hang tam su cung con cho do nho nhung va thuong yeu^ con , Lam con … su ra di cua con la niem dau thuong cua Ba , nhung du sao di nua con cung ve^ ben^ CHUA , cho du Ba co thuong yeu^ va nho nhung di nua cung chi la su be nho cua Ba ma thoi^ , Ba chi mong sao tren nuoc TROI con cua Ba lam vui long CHUA va cac THANH , rieng Ba cua con va may em van ok , MAILY van con di hoc them , MAILOAN VA LUONG di lam , Ba van lam cong viec nhu luc con van con song voi Ba , cho du cong viec rat cuc kho nhung no cung giup Ba lo cho cac em cua con an hoc va nuoi cac con lon len , Ba rat vui trong cong viec do , con hay cau nguyen cho Ba va may em con day du suc khoe va viec lam vui ve ,,,,…rieng con hay lam viec vui ve voi CHUA … tuy con khong con ben Ba nua , nhung trong long Ba luc nao xem con nhu dang song ben Ba vay do con … nen nhin thay con vui ve la Ba cung vui ….. da gan het nam 2006 va se den 2007 , Ba chuc con vui ve va vui ve ben CHUA
DADDY CUA LAM^ ALL WAY LOVE YOU AND LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE
I’m just sitting here playing Madden and can’t help but to think of all the times we use to play this addictive game. Your spirit is attached to this game I play everyday, I’m glad a new one comes out every year.
Daddy love you ! misssss you .
Dear HA XUAN TRUONG Day la website cua con toi ten la chau da pass away 4 nam roi , luc con song rat tot voi ban be va moi nguoi , nen khi mat di , ban be cua lam website nay de nho den va de tam su voi luc co nhung chuyen buon ,vui , toi thay mac gia dinh tat ca nhung ai da vao website nay de tham
DADDY CUA CAM ON TAT CA
Hey wsup Lam. haven’t talk to you for a while and thought i’d drop by to say hi. I’ve been making strides to improve things for myself, but probably still need some help. =) Give me 10% of your motivation bro and I’ll take care of the rest! Your the best Lam and definitely one of my heroes. K Lam, take care bro and i’ll talk to you again sometime.
Tina and I visited your grave two weeks ago before I left for school at Penn. It was my first time visiting since the funeral. It’s Tina’s first time ever being at your grave. Do you remember Tina? She was your kid at Kairos 3.
I need another favor, Lam. Her mother unexpectedly passed away this morning. Can you welcome her with open arms in heaven? It’s been pretty rough on Tina and her family. Take care, Lam.
hehe, sorry about the daisy. the hotlink isn’t working at the moment. anyway, it’s just an excuse for me to leave another “happy birthday” message for you! ^^
Lam con yeu^ cua BA ! 26 nam truoc CHUA da cho con ra doi lam con cua BA , thi con vinh vien la con cua BA , nhung cach day 4 nam CHUA da dem con ve voi CHUA , vi vay BA khong the nao danh voi CHUA nhung trong long BA luon luon co con va trai TIM BA luc nao cung nho va thuong ve con …. Hom nay la ngay 29 thang 8 2006 , this your BIRTHDAY , vao nam do con sinh ra doi trong 1 hoan canh that la kho^? luc ay ba ma con song trong trai ty nan , nhung ba cung co gang lo cho con , va qua den MY , roi moi nam con lon len .. long ba luon tham cam on CHUA da cho ba 1 dua con hien va biet thuong gia dinh , luc nao cung lo cho cac em con ,.. tuy nhung nam thang con lon len ba ma thi lo di lam de kiem tien tao cho con 1 cuoc song day du hon … vi the ma ba khong co thi gio de day bao con lam sao de song . nhung rat may CHUA da giup ba lo cho con va cac em con nen nguoi … ba rat vui … nhung su vui mung do khong duoc keo dai thi cach day 4 nam con da bo gia dinh de tim 1 noi ma CHUA da dinh sang cho con , long ba nhu chet di , vi su ra di cua con da lam cho tinh than ba sup do , roi tu do moi viec gia dinh minh thay doi …..
LAM con ! thuong va nho con nhieu lam ,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU LAM
Lam con yeu thuong cua Ba ! da gan 4 nam con roi xa gia dinh , con chi ve tham Ba 3 lan sau khi con roi gia dinh , the roi may nam nay khong biet vi sao ma con khong co ve tham Ba nua , Ba buon va nho con nhieu lam , neu con nho den Ba xin phep CHUA ve tham Ba di con … Ba nho con nhieu lam , nhung Ba chang biet phai lam sao bay gio con oi ! co nhung dem Ba nam 1 minh cu cho doi con ve tham Ba , nhung hoan toan khong thay cho du 1 giat mo , Ba nghi chac con rat ban lam viec cho CHUA nen khong ve duoc , thoi thi tat ca Ba dang len CHUA , mong sao tren nuoc TROI con cua BA duoc vui ve , cho du con dang noi nao di nua trai TIM BA luon luon co con , va no se theo BA suot ca cuoc doi cua BA … chac con cung biet BA ,MAILY va LUONG da move ra ngoai roi , con can nha do MA va MAILOAN dang o , can nha do co rat nhieu ky niem da lam cho BA dau long , gio day moi viec da yen , BA lo lam de lo cho may em con , hon nua phai lo cho doi song nhung nguoi than cua BA ben VIET NAM nua con a , neu con van song voi BA thi tat ca dau co thay doi nhu bay gio , chi tiec la con ve voi CHUA som qua , roi tu do gia dinh cua minh da hoan toan thay doi …. BA ve can nha nay BA van de cho con 1 phong , trong phong van co TIVI va tat ca nhung hinh anh cua con trong do ,.. co nhung dem BA vao do dong cua lai de cho con ve ,.nhung khong duoc vi con khong ve …. khong phai Ba noi ra de trach con dau , BA chi buon va nho con ma thot len nhu vay thoi .. mong con thong cam cho BA ,… BA da ve can nha moi nay da 1 nam 4 thang roi do con … cac em con cung vui ve lam hon nua Ba cung co gang lo cho cac em con …. bay gio MAILY van con hoc them 2 nam nua do con .. sau khi MAILY ra truong UCI xong em di lam duoc 2 nam , MAILY muon di hoc them ,… nen BA da lo cho em con di hoc ..,. con MAILOAN van song ben MA em van di lam binh thuong va LUONG van di lam … the la gia dinh minh da chia ra lam 2 that la tiec qua di , cung gi BA qua tin nguoi ta ma gia dinh minh moi ra nong noi nhu vay , thoi moi viec gi say ra BA nghi con da hieu . .. BA chi tiec la con roi xa BA rat som ,,.. BA chua lo troan trach nhiem cua 1 nguoi lam CHA ma thoi , uoc gi con dau thai lam con cua BA lai thi hay biet may , mong sao nhung gi BA uoc , xin CHUA cho bA ,.. nho den con nhieu lam LAM^ … CAU XIN CHUA LO CHO CON VA GIUP DO CON SAU NAY , BA CUA CON YEU^ CON NHIEU
DADDY ALLWAY LOVE YOU LAM^
dear LAM.tinh co minh doc duoc nhung dong tam su cua moi nguoi gui den cho ban,nhat la noi nho thuong va dau don cua Dang sinh thanh,mot tam long cao nhu nui Thai son ,do la nguoi cha yeu dau cua ban.Minh da khoc khi doc nhung dong tam su do.Khong co noi dau nao bang noi dau khi phai mat di mot nguoi than,cung giong nhu minh,minh cung da bi mat di mot dua em trai than yeu khi vua tron 25 tuoi khi dang chuan bi lap gia dinh,chi con hon vai thang,vay ma em minh cung khong the cho va khong con co hoi de huong cai ngay hanh phuc nhat cua cuoc song lam nguoi,em minh cung da bo ra di mai mai.Lam oi minh muon gui den nhung dong tam su nay den va xin chia sot mot phan noi buon dau cung voi cha ban ,mot nguoi cha da phai bi roi vao noi don dau khi mat di mot dua con.Minh se luon cau nguyen voi Thien Chua luon luon gin giu va ban huong phuoc an dem ban ve huong phuoc Thien Dang ben canh Nguoi . Thao on 2006-08-01
LAM MY GOOD SON ,TOMOROW LUONG RA TRUONG DO CON , DADDY SOOO MISSSSED YOU DADDY VUI NHIEU , VI CAC CON DA HOC XONG , TUY CON DA VE TROI VOI CHUA , NHUNG CON CAC EM CON , MAY EM CON CUNG CO GANG HOC NEN BAY GIO MOI CO KET QUA NHU VAY , TUY DADDY LAM VIEC RAT MET NHUNG CUNG VUI KHI THAY CAC CON CUA DADDY , HOC XONG ROI , NEU CO CON NOI DAY CHAC LA VUI LAM CON OI ! , NHUNG TAT CA NHUNG GI CUA CON DEU THUOC VE CHUA CA ROI DADDY KHONG DAM LAM GI CA , MONG SAO CON HAY NHIN VE GIA DINH MA CAU NGUYEN , DE CAC EM CUA CON CO VIEC LAM VA VUI VE
LAM ! DADDY AND ALL FAMILY MISSSSSSS YOU ! LOVE YOU MY SON , < TIN AND SOMEONE WANT TO COME VISIT LAM THIS IS CEMETARY ADDRESS , < HARBOR REST MEMORIAL PARK > 1625 GISLER AVE , COSTA MESA , CA.92626 PHONE # 714 540 76O2
GO HARBOR SOUTH TOWARD COSTA MESA , AFFTER YOU PASS THE 405 SOUTH FREEWAY, MAKER A RIGHT ON GISLER , IT WILL BE ON YOUR LEFT HAND SIDE
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH WHO STILL LOVE AND REMEMBER < LAM > ALL MY FAMILY ALLWAY THANK ,….
Hi Lam,
It really has been a long time, hasn’t it? So much has happened since I last talked to you. Just like your family, I miss you so much. Hope you can help me find some peace in my life at this point in time. Thank you my cuz.
Hi Lam and family. If it is possible, can someone provide the address to the cemetary where Lam is resting? I haven’t visited in awhile and would like to. Thank you so much.
Hi Lam! It’s almost Mother’s Day. You know all of us miss you a lot during times like these. holidays, events, etc. You’re always in our hearts. We miss you so much!
“If Tears Could Build A Stairway,
and Memories A Lane, I’d Walk Right Up to Heaven
and Bring You Home Again.”
Hi Lam,
Wow, it’s been so long….I know throughout high school I never had the chance to even say hi or talk to you. I remembered coming over to your house but for some odd reason we never spoke. Maybe because we never really got introduced. I spent some time w/ your sister Mai and she’s a great person. I know you’re a great person yourself because throughout HS you were always smiling no matter where I saw you. The only thing I remember about you was because I know you were good at volleyball and everyone else I knew loved that sport also. As I was reading your words I realized how most of us had gone through the same thing you have. I just want you to know that even though we didn’t get a chance to be friends you’re in my thoughts n prayers….I know you’ve touched many hearts n I’m glad to know you had such a positive attitude.I know you’re in heaven smiling down watching your family and friends. I also believe what you said is true..I’m not afraid of dying but afraid to leave those I love behind…Well hope to see you again one day…..
HI CUZZO =)! HOW’S HEAVEN TREATIN’ YA?! EVERYTHING IS STILL INSANE DOWN HERE….YOU KNOW WHAT’S GO ON. GADO SAYS “HI”. HE SAYS HE TALKS TO YOU ALOT AT NIGHT =). I REALLY MISS YOU LAM. JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEND YOU SOME LOVE =)! TAKE CARE SWEETIE! LOVE YOU =)!
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY GOOD SON , LAM EVERY NIGTH DADDY LAY DOW TO GO TO SLEEP ,DADDY ALWAYS HOPING THAT YOU WOULD COME IN TO MY DREAMS , DADDY LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TOOOOOOOO SOOOOO MUCH ,
LAM MY SON , ONLY TELL YOU DADDY LOVE YOU ALL MY HEART , BUT YOU KNOW WHAT THE TRUTH IS …
DADDY NEEDED YOU MORE THAN YOU NEEDED ME
THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR TIME WITH US
DADDY LOVE YOU ALL AND SOOOOOO MUCH
hi! Lam!
I really dun know who you are but i met this website by chance and of course I dun know if you are meeting obstacles. anyway, let me pray for you, and have a good day
LAM CON ! DADDY DA VE ROI , BA DA DI GAN 3 TUAN BEN VIET NAM , VUI LAM VI BA GAP LAI CAC CHU CAC CO ^ CUA ? CON , CAC EM CUA CON NUA , NEU CON CON CHAC CON SE VE THAM MOI NGUOI
DADDY CUA CON
Hi Lam… long time reader first time writer. To this day I have been comparing people I come in contact with to see if anyone’s aura compares to yours. Not even close! Miss you. Hope you are doing well. Say “Hi” to my dad for me and also to all of my relatives. I just came back from Vietnam to visit our mother country… it’s beautiful. It still needs a lot of work but slowly it will be great for the underpriviledged (sp). Please pray for them. Miss you… miss what we had… I’m thankful for all the times I’ve been able to hang out with you whether good or bad. Thank you thank you. You have been an inspiration not only for me but countless of people, family, friends strangers. Ive finally finished fixing my teeth! Can you believe that! Hah! My tooth is resting in your grave… hope you are taking good care of it. Please pray for me so taht I can be as great as you… I want to be an inspiration for others just like you… wanna keep your legacy alive. Until we speak again.
You left so soon
We didn’t have the chance to say goodbye
But that’s okay..
We know you didn’t want it to be that way
We stood by you when you fought so hard
To come back into our lives
So we all can be happy again
You held on as long as you can
We will never forget you
If it means you have to leave us
To find your happiness
Then take our love with you
Wherever you go.. and don’t you ever forget
To watch over us (we know that you’re there)
To watch over us (your love is everywhere)
Just watch over us
From Heaven
We miss your smile that gave us joy and laughter in our lives
We know one day we will be together once again
We stood by you when you fought so hard
To come back into our lives
So we all can be happy again
You held on as long as you can
We will never forget you
There’s so many of us
That you left behind
But we all know that someday
Soon there will come a time
A time when we will see each other again
And we will be together.. up there in heaven.
Lam – Happy New Year – wish you could have been here to enjoy 2006 w/ us. I had a great time in Vegas w/ your friends. And, amazingly, I had great luck w/ the slot machines this time around. My first ever to win anything in Vegas….. Well, now I see why dad likes it so much. Hee hee… Well, love you and miss you much! Muah!
Lam con , cu vao nhung ngay HOLYDAY Ba rat la nho toi con , nho nhung luc con nghi hoc ra shop giup Ba di giao hang , co ngay con di toi 2 lan , Ba nhin con Ba rat la thuong con , mong sao con hoc mau ra truong de di lam , vi Ba biet do la ngay ma con rat mong uoc , nhin thay con ngoan , hoc gioi , Ba vo cung cam on CHUA da cho Ba 1 dua con rat tot nhu vay , roi nhung ngay thang Ba nhin thay con truong thanh , mong sao con tot lanh trong cuoc doi sau nay cua con , hang ngay Ba rat la vui khi nhin ra duoc con da truong thanh , mieng khong dam noi ra , nhung trong long Ba luon luon cam ta CHUA , da cho Ba 1 dua con nhu vay ……. nhung con oi niem vui cua Ba chua tron ven , thi noi dau buon lai den voi Ba va ca gia dinh , khi ma tin buon den voi gia dinh minh , do la luc BAC SI cho gia dinh biet la con da mang 1 chung benh , vo cung nguy hiem nhu vay do con , the la cuoc doi cua Ba nhu da sup do tat ca , Ba cung nhu gia dinh co gang lo cho con , cu tuong lo cho con duoc ngay nao hay ngay nay , nhung cuoi cung CHUA da dua con ve voi CHUA , tat ca gia dinh minh giong nhu 1 con ac mong , CON DA RA DI , CON DA RA DI ROI , CON DA BO LAI TAT CA , con da de lai tat ca nhung gi Ba du dinh cho con , con khong can nua , con da ve voi CHUA ,… de lai biet bao la su thuong nho cua moi nguoi ….. con da bo Ba cung nhu tat ca gia dinh ma ra di , 1 thang con nam tren giuong benh con khong noi duoc 1 loi nao voi Ba cung nhu gia dinh ….. nhin thay con long Ba vo cung chua xot ….. con oi ! con da bo Ba ma di …. niem dau noi nho cua Ba doi voi con het , thi su dau buon khac lai den voi Ba trong gia dinh , nguoi ta da lam cho gia dinh Ba tan nat ……lam cho Ba va Ma xa nhau …. roi sau 11 thang con bo Ba ra di , thi NOI con lai mang 1 chung benh , roi cung bo BA ma di …. chi trong 1 nam thoi ma BA cua con phai chieu biet bao la dau buon , Ba cu nghi Ba se nga quy xuong va se khong bao gio dung len duoc nua , nhung tat ca deu nho LY LOAN AND LUONG , bA CO GANG DUNG LEN DE LO cho cac em con toi ngay khon lon , the roi gio day cu moi lan nho toi con B akhong biet lam gi chi ngoi day tam su cung con
CHUC CON MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEWYEAR
DADDY LOVE YOU ALL
Hi Lam, how are you? it has been quite a long time since I talked to you, but you know that I am always thinking about you, wishing that you were here so I can talk to you. My life has been really difficult lately, I really don’t know what to do. Do you think you can help me out by giving me a sign or something? I really need to make some important decisions but I don’t know where to start. I know I am not saying much but I know you know what I am talking about. As always thank you listening.
CON LAM THUONG YEU CUA DADDY ! HOM QUA LA NGAY GIO CUA CON 3 NAM , TAT CA DEU VUI CA , MOI NGUOI AI CUNG THUONG YEU CON , DEN RAT DONG , RIENG DADDY BUON LAM CON OI , NHO CON NHIEU LAM , THUONG CON VO CUNG , LAU ROI CON KHONG VE THAM DADDY , CO LE CON DA DUOC CHUA AN BAY , NEN CON SE DUOC VUI VE SONG BEN CHUA , LUC NAO DADDY CUNG NHO TOI CON < LAM DADDY LOVE YOU >
Hey Lam, it’s been 3 years since you’ve been gone now. Wow…time goes by so fast. My parents are in Vietnam now, because my mom’s dad recently passed away on tuesday. My family is in a depressing mode. Although I never met my grandpa, his death reminded me of you. I see my mom cry and my dad cry. I cried also when my mom held the phone so i could talk to him. It hit me when he didn’t reply..it’s too late..he’s passed on. So if you see him, take care of him. He’s old and weak. Tell him that I really wanted to meet him, but I just didn’t have a chance. Thanx. XOXO…Vi..your cousin
November 11 —- It’s like we’re all in that hospital waiting room again. Our entire family was together again. We all sat patiently waiting never expecting the worse was yet to come. The doctor walked in and we all stood up at once. He was blunt. With a strong and stern look on his face, he said “I’m sorry, he’s not going to make it. It’s come back bigger and stronger.” The whole room shook around me and then I heard nothing. Looking around I could see each person breaking down one by one. Grown men were not ashamed to allow others to see them fall apart. Others were in shock, eyes wide and paralyzed. The tears streaming down their faces was their only movement.
I still denied it. I didn’t what the doctors said. At that very moment, I still believed you were going to make it. Even when I stood there watching your life line go flat and the nurses attempting to revive you, I really believed you weren’t going to leave.
And then……… you were gone.
The pain that I felt in my heart at that very moment was one that was new to me. An emptiness I never felt before. You were gone and I knew it. Because it was the first time that I cried in front of you and you didn’t wipe my tears. You could never NOT CONSOLE any of us if you saw us crying. I knew that if you were standing in my shoes at that very moment and watched all this unfold before your eyes, you be the first to comfort. You always knew what to say and if not, the look on your face was comforting enough.
That pain I felt hasn’t gone away since. I don’t know when I could just think about you and not cry. Growing up, you were my partner – Everything that I experienced for the first time in my life as a child, you were always the person to witness it: sleeping in the “scary” room w/out parents or walking to Monroe Elementary on the 1st day of school in 1st grade. Even then, I always wanted you to believe that I was tough like you but in reality, I was always leaning on you. You would distract me by saying anything that came to your mind. The long walk to school soon became short adventures. Remember when we refused to let mom and dad drive us to school when it was raining? We both had our own umbrellas and fought through the “hard winter storm” as we made it to “safe grounds” together. I loved mornings then. You were the kind of brother who always tried to keep imagination in us – cause you loved the genuine emotional reaction. Gosh Lam, thinking about all those little times when it was just me and you is such a trip.
I really believed that every big moment in my life, you were going to be standing right there for me to lean on. It’s been tough these past couple of months w/out you here to lean on to guide me through this experience I’m now forced to face on my own. This is the first time that I’m facing something on my own and you no “Lam” to lean on. It’s really been tough. But I’m doing ok and I’m going to try my best cause I know you can see me. Please don’t let me fail or get weak –
Hey Lam! how are you, Luv? Just a few more hours and everyone in our relative will gather at your parent house and prays for you. Hope you’ll be there to visit us, because everyone in our family missing you a lot. This year have been tuff for my family. It’s seems like no one get a long and have their own separate ways of everything. Everyone in my family always think that what they do are did was right and no matter how big or small the problem really is. They never seems to agreed on anything at all. To conclusion the problems never solved and built more conflicted to one others. No one really communicate in my family anymore. I realized life is getting more difficult each day and good times can only be in my memories. Lam, I know life is more meaningful than just this. Help our family get through this tuff times and help us find our road back home.
Hey Lam, it’s been a very long time since I wrote to you. First and foremost, I want you to know that just because I don’t write doesn’t mean that I don’t think of you. There is always a place for you in my heart and I know you know that. I still remember today, three years ago like it was yesterday. I have been thinking about you so much. I’ve been thinking about a lot of things….! I wish so bad that you were here. You were always so genuine to me and I want you to know I will never forgot who you were. Always and forever………
Lam – please help me through these rough times in my life. Let me see what’s best for me and our family. Help me see that this life has more to offer and to find happiness within it. XOXO
LAM CON DA GAN TOI NGAY GIO THU 3 CUA CON , LONG BA BUON OI LA BUON , LUC NAO CUNG NHO TOI CON , NEU CO DIEP VE THAM BA CON NHE , BA LUC NAO CUNG NHO VA THUONG CON , LUON LUON CHO CON VE THAM BA
CHUC CON VUI VE DADDY ALL WAY LOVE YOU LAM
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU LAM DADDY
DADDY LOVE YOU
Whats goin’ on bro…. just wanted to drop on by and see how the site was doing… we still all think about u and talk of you from time to time…. still can’t believe you’re really not gonna be coming by anymore….. ur always in our thoughts!
It’s been a long time…I not sure what to say…I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you tonight. When I think of you, it puts a smile on my face…all the memories that you gave me. Anyhow, I just wanted you to know that I haven’t forgotten about you and that I still think of you…
hey lam,
It’s been a long time since i wrote to you. i just wanted to remind you that i haven’t forgot about you. well, i’m in college now. i’m going to gwc..but tranferring to UCI. Well my family misses you a lot especially DUY. he tells me he thinks of you all the time. Keep watching over our families. LOVE ya MISS ya.
Vi
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU < LAM > WE LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH LAM^ , ALL STILL MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU TOO,
< HAPPY BIRTHDAY 25 YEARS LAM^>
ALL FAMILY SENT TO YOU , LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE AND MISSSSSSSSSSSS YOU TOOOOOOOOOO
LAM CON ! LAU ROI BA IT GOI THU CHO CON ,SORRY CON NHE , HOM NAY BA CHO CON BIET LA , MAILOAN , DA RA TRUONG ROI , VAY CON XIN CHUA GIUP EM CO VIEC LAM TOT DI CON , MONG CON CO GANG GIUP MAILOAN CON NHE , TAT CA GIA DINH DRU KHOE CA , CHI BUON LA KHONG CO CON O DAY MA THOI , BAY GIO MAILOAN MUON TIM 1 VIEC KHAC GOOD HON NHUNG CHUA CO , CO GANG LAM CON NHE …. GIO DAY BA CHI CON 1 MINH LUONG DI HOC MONG LA NAM TOI LUONG RA TRUONG NUA LA XONG , CO LE LUC DO MAY EM SE GIUP DUOC BA NHIEU HON , THOI CHUC CON VUI VE BEN CHUA
I miss you Lam. Just because I haven’t been writing to you on this site, it doesn’t mean I haven’t been missing and thinking about you. I think and dream about you every night. I really miss you. It’s hard sometimes – you know. life in general – without you. Things have changed so much. Definately not for the better…. I just miss chatting with you. I miss your voice. Your sarcasm, your smile and how you make me realize how silly I can be. You made my life so easy by being my big brother. I really wish I appreciated you more while you were here. I always pictured our life so differently but we should take life as it comes. I just wanted you to know I’m trying as best as I can, for you and our family. I love you. Good night. talk to you in my dreams.
Hey Lam! It’s been a long time since I’ve written to you. I didn’t forget about you… just a lot of stressful things going on in my life lately, but you already knew that. It’s funny how we sometimes forget about the little things that matter in life. Sometimes I wonder if my faith in life was already destined for me or am I making my own faith?! I saw ur dad on my birthday ! He’s such a lovable guy. He seems like he’s doing ok. He wants us to come visit him to see his new house. We’ll probably visit you & him during the holidays. Well, I hope everything is peaches and cream in heaven. I really miss you a lot. Take care Lam & I’ll write to you again soon. Byee cousin ! XOXO
Lam con ! lau roi Ba khong viet thu cho con , sory con nhe , sao con co khoe khong ? viec lam cho CHUA cua con ra sao ? co vui khong con ? CHUA thuong con nhieu lam phai khong ? vi khi con con song rat nhieu nguoi thuong con BA nghi CHUA se thuong con nhieu , rieng gia dinh minh van khoe , BA va MA da chia tay xong moi nguoi co 1 cuoc song rieng , hien gio MAILY AND LUONG dang o voi BA con LOAN o voi MA , can nha ngay xua MA va LOAN o , BA da mua can nha khac , nhieu khi nam 1 minh BA nho con nhieu lam , nhung BA khong biet phai lam sao , nhung BA nghi lai biet dau bay gio con dang vui ve ben CHUA , LAM con ! may nam nay cung vi nhung con nguoi mieng thi luc nao cung noi ve CHUA nhung trong long ho toan la SATAN da dua gia dinh BA vao con duong dau kho va tan nat , BA nghi lai BA rat la han nhung con nguoi nhu vay , nhat la ten LINH MUC < BUI CONG MINH > ben ngoai thi lam viec cho CHUA nhung ben trong thi lam viec cho SATAN va TINH DUC , da day dua gia dinh BA vao con duong tan nat , va BA rat han nguoi ben canh BA da phan boi BA pha tan het gia dinh cua BA bay gio moi nguoi moi noi , khong duoc doan tu , BA chi tiec suot hon 25 nam BA bo cong gay dung , chi 1 thoi gian ngan thoi ten LINH MUC < BUI CONG MINH > da vao gia dinh minh pha tat ca , uong cong BA vi qua tin loi ten LINH MUC do , nhung ma nho vay BA moi biet < dung bao gio tin vao ai , du la 1 LINH MUC va cung dung tin nhieu ve nguoi ben canh minh du nguoi do la vo minh > that su gia dinh minh da tan nat tu khi con roi xa gia dinh , nhung BA nghi chac con tren TROI con da hieu nhieu roi , hom nay moi viec dau vao do roi , BA chi noi so so cho con hieu ma thoi , thoi BA di lam chuc con vui ve BA CUA CON
dad love you lam
Hi Lam. I know you don’t know me, but I do know some of your siblings. I’m in Joe’s class, so you were a senior when I was a freshman at Los. I was also in journalism with Maily, too. I remember that you were Winter Formal king (or was it prom king? I forget…) your name was on the front page, but your name was misspelled. =/ We should have caught that. Sorry.
Anyhow, I remember going to St. Barbara and seeing you at church with your family. I know Joe always looked up to you, too. When I first heard about your passing I was already in WA for months a few months. It devastated me. Though I really didn’t know you, just the thought of my hs friends losing a close loved one…broke my heart bcs it brought back memories of my grandpa, a fatherlike figure who passed away during my sophomore year. I tried to call Joe, too, but I don’t think I ever reached him.
I browsed through your site after seeing Maily on friendster a few years ago. I cried my eyes out.
I’m sure you’re doing well now. It’s been a while. I was just thinking about my grandpa earlier…and then for some reason you popped into my head…so here I am. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. Gnite.
I was browning the internet trying to find the peace in me and just noticed your website.
One of my friends is in coma and in very critical condition. He has been unconscious for over 3 days. It is kind tough going through the experience. I could not image if he is not around.
By reading your story, I find comfort, encouragement, and believe God will direct him. Thank you!
In the break of dawn, light hits the dew on the lawn.
Sun rises upon, beds untouched.
The ashes of night, clings onto to dear life,
with the commemoration to embrace the voyage of light.
The distance traveled, the sand we barrowed.
The salty sea of sorrow.
Has washed upon me, upon us, upon we!
The possibility for us to carry on the memories of your passing.
Hey Lam, I am sitting here at Claire’s computer in LA with your picture on it and it just makes me miss you so much. How have you been? I have not talked to you for a long time but I know you know what has been going on lately. Please pray for your family and watch out for them okay. Love you and miss you very much
LAM CON ! DA SAP HET NAM , VA GAN TOI NAM 2005 , CON DA XA GIA DINH HON 2 NAM ROI TRONG LONG BA VA MOI NGUOI AI CUNG NHO VA THUONG CON VO CUNG , RIENG DADDY CU GAN TOI NGAY HOLIDAY NHU VAY BA RAT LA BUON VA NHO TOI CON , KHONG BIET LAM SAO DE NOI RA CHO CON BAY GIO , VAY GAN TOI NGAY HOLIDAY DADDY CHUC CON VA BA NOI VUI VE VOI CHUA VA DUOC CHUA THUONG YEU VA LO CHO CON VA BA NOI
DADDY CUA CON
LAM LOVE YOU ! Lau Roi DADDY Khong Viet Thu Tham Con ,Sorry LAM Con Nhe ! Daddy OK, MAILY, MAILOAN, LUONG And Your MOM all oK , still remember You, DADDY only SAY DADDY LOVE you all my Heart LOVE YOU LAM
Geez, I missed your bday, happy belated bday big guy. Food for thought, this is coming from ‘Tuesday’s With Morrie’, “Devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.” These words came from Morrie himself; these words describe you. Love you…
LAM LOVE YOU
Anh Lam ! em xin loi anh , tai vi em ko biet trang we cua anh , em cung vua biet duoc day ,anh co khoe ko .Em nho luc anh ve VIET NAM , thi luc do em con nho lam em chang biet gi ca , va luc do em thay vui lam ,em thay anh choi vap tay voi anh Qua ,anh manh lam .ty em ko co thuong xuyen gap anh ,nhung em cung thuong nghe Noi ke ve anh nhieu lam ,anh lam 1 nguoi rat tot, va thuong em moi nguoi,va ty anh em minh ko chua bao gio ngoi tam su voi nhau lan nao ,ma chi nghe nhung nguoi trong gia dnh minh noi ve anh thoi,anh la 1 nguoi anh ma trong gia dinh em kinh trong nhat .em rat la thuong tiet em uoc gi duoc ngoi tam su ben anh va em se ke het nhung chuyen buon la em cho anh nghe va anh cung vay .Va anh Lam oi em da Cuoi Vo roi cung duoc 2 thang day ,va chung em song nhau hanh phuc lam .em da lon roi ko nhu hoi nho luc anh ve nua dau ,gio thi chac ko con co hoi nua dau phai ko anh.Thoi tam biet anh{Hen mai gap lai} chuc anh vui ve………../////////
Hi Lam,
Lam khoe khong? Tai rat xin loi vi den bay gio moi viet duoc vai dong cho Lam. Nho luc Lam ve Viet Nam, Lam choi voi moi nguoi rat vui, Lam choi Vat Tay ( Gat Tay) voi Qua, roi voi cu Van, hinh nhu Lam win het thi phai, Lam rat manh. Now tuy Lam da di xa, but hinh anh cua Lam van luon con trong moi nguoi, nhat la Ba cua Lam.
We all miss you!
anh Lam^ thi ra anh da~ ra di ma em ko biet ko ngo` anh da~ di roi, anh da~ ra di ma de~ lai niem thuong xot cho ca~ gia dinh`, toi chot bay gio em doc duoc tam su cua bac7 em moi biet rag` anh da~ (chet) ma cai ra di nay hinh nhu em cung wen lang~ bay gio dc vao trang wed nay tuy nhien anh ko nhan dc loi nhan’ cua em nhung em mong sao anh o~ tren troi` dc binh yen va xin anh dung co wen cong duc’ cua bac7(cha) cua anh, loi tam su cua bac7 khien em rat xuc dong truoc nhung~ loi` noi’ tam su het suc dau kho~ nay`, Anh Lam^ anh Lam^ hay~ nho’ den cong on nay` nha anh Lam^. Em se~ thuong xuyen vao trang wed nay viet vai` loi tam su tuy anh ko nhan dc loi nhan nay` nhung em van~ mai~ viet cho den khi em buon chan’ thoi..?!………?>
chut anh Lam khoe co gi anh Lam mail cho em nha
anh Lam ha~ em chuot ne con cua bac Tinh day’ anh Lam em se~ thuong xuyen viet thu !….. chuc anh manh khoe nha anh Lam!?…..
LAM^ YEU^ CUA DADDY
Ba con nho cach day 5 nam , cung vao thang nay khi ma bac si cho gia dinh minh biet la con da mang 1 chung benh nguy hiem nhu vay , ba that su khong tin cho lam , ba cu nghi la ho dang co su lam lang nao do , chu con cua ba tai sao lai mang chung benh nhu vay chu , ba hoan toan khong tin gi ca , nhung cuoi cung gia dinh minh va ban than con cung phai chap nhan su that cho du su that do den voi gia dinh minh va ban than con vo cung tan nhan qua di thoi …..the roi su that van la su that con phai mang 1 chung benh ma tren the gian nay ai nghe cung so ca … sau 7 thang con cua ba da co gang , chieu dung moi dau kho de chua tri , nhin thay con nhung ngay thang do Ba vo cung dau trong long nhieu lam , tuy ngoai mieng cu noi con khong sao dau , chi de cho con an tam ma thoi , chu trong long Ba nhu da chet di1 phan than the cua Ba roi ,, roi ngay thang troi qua …….. con da khong qua duoc tai kiep ma CHUA da danh sang cho tung nguoi ….con da ra di , su ra di cua con , la ca 1 bau troi sup do trong tam hon cua Ba do con …..,,, hon 1 thang con nam trong ICU , con muon noi nhieu deu voi gia dinh voi Ba Ma va cac em con va moi nguoi sung quanh con nhieu lam ,,,. the ma con khong noi duoc 1 cau nao … de roi con bo lai tat ca , bo lai nhung gi ma con lam chua xong ,…nhung su yeu thuong cua moi nguoi …. nhung buon vui ma trong cuoc doi cua con ….. nhung gi con muon lam ,,ma lam chua duoc … con da de lai biet bao la thuong nho cua moi nguoi … roi con ve voi CHUA , con co biet khong sau ngay con di roi gia dinh minh cung tan nat ca ,,, nguoi ta loi dung su tin cua ba de roi di vao gia dinh cua minh ma pha di tat ca … nen ba khong biet ai tot ca con oi cho nguoi ta la 1 linh muc di nua .. Ba cung vi tin ten linh muc do ma bay gio gia dinh minh moi ra nong noi nay , thoi vai hang goi den con trong thang 4 nay daddy cua con alllway love you LAM^
Hey Lam, this world needs some more people like you…
daddy love you LAM^,daddy allway love and love you.
Hi Lam, it has been a long time since I visited you. I have been really busy with work and everything. I hope you can forgive me. Life has been really difficult lately for me, have been feeling really stressed and tired, up to a point of breaking. I try to take it one day at a time. Thinking of you always makes me feel better. You always seem to make things better with how you are. I really miss you.
Vo^ tinh` di ngang day^
Xin goi? loi` chia buon^` den^’ O^ng
Chu’c O^ng co’ nhieu^` su*. binh` ie^n trong ta^m ho^n`
Dearest Lam,
Miss You! Your dad is currently at my family’s house, having a great time. He just told me about your website. I wanted you to know that he is very happy. He talks to me about you all the time. You’re always miss, and know we are always thinking of you.
Love you, ngoc
Hey there dear brother of mine…. today is a very sad day since the world has again lost another great person. It makes me so sad because it brings me back to the day we lost you all over again….. I know that with you, Larry Nguyen, will be just fine. Hope you’re doing good. I miss you so much…. words cannot even describe how much…..
Our prayers and thoughts go out to Larry (Linh) Nguyen, his family and loved ones. May your sweet soul rest in peace.
Lam con ! thank Lam^ , toi^! qua con da ve tham BA , daddy sooo much happy , Ba thay con rat vui va cuoi hoai , rieng Ba khi gap con Ba khoc rat nhieu , co le lau qua khong gap duoc con , noi cho cung Ba rat la vui do LAM^ , neu co thoi gian ve tham Ba con nhe , daddy love you LAM^
Lam con ! bay gio la nam con HEO , neu gio nay con van con o voi Ba thi con cung da 27 tuoi , co le con cung lap gia dinh roi , TONY da lay NINA roi do con , dau nam con HEO DADDY chuc con vui ve va lam viec ben CHUA , Ba lixi cho con , lau lam roi , qua ban nen con khong ve tham ba , thoi Ba thong cam cho con do , rieng tat ca gia dinh minh van khoe do con ,Ba rat la nho den con , daddy love you LAM ,
daddy love you HAPPY NEWYEAR
Toi chi la 1 nguoi tinh co ghe ngang qua day, doc nhung dong tam su cua gia dinh, va ban be cua ban, toi rat la xuc dong. Khong biet vi sao ma Lam ra di qua som de lai bao nhieu thuong nho cho dang sanh thanh. Toi khong sao cam duoc nuoc mat. Ngam ngui va tiec thuong cho su mat mat lon lao cua Bac trai va gia dinh. Toi xin thanh that chia buon.
Hey Cousin,
Just wanted to wish you a happy new year mane.
One LuV
HAPPYNEWYEAR TO YOU LAM^
Lam^ con thoi gian qua con da xa gia dinh , cung may la moi nguoi da tro lai cuoc song binh thuong , rieng daddy cu nghi , khong the nao dung len duoc voi su mat con va moi nguoi chung quanh da lam cho Ba dau buon rat nhieu , nhung roi Bacon phai lo may em con nen Ba co gang cau xin CHUA da cho Ba dung len va moi viec da xong , bay gio Ba va Ma con moi nguoi da co cuoc song moi , du cho cuoc song moi the nao di nua Ba van tiec nui cuoc song cua Ba va gia dinh Ba , Ba da co cong tao dung len gan 25 nam the ma chi trong phut choc nguoi ta da da pha di su hanh phuc cua gia dinh Ba , ho da dang la nguoi lam viec cho CHUA , vi Ba la con nguoi binh thuong nen khong biet duoc ho dang lam viec cho SATAN , vi the ma Ba da de ho vao gia dinh Ba ma pha di tat ca , thoi thi tat ca cung da xong 1 kiep nguoi , co le ngay ma con roi xa gia dinh cung la ngay Ba phai chieu su dau kho ma nguoi doi da danh cho Ba , mong sao tren TROI con hieu duoc long Ba luc nao cung luon luon nho va yeu thuong con nhieu lam , nam moi chuc con vui ve lam viec cho CHUA , cau nguyen cho gia dinh minh con nhe BA CUA CON LOVE YOU
Why, i am asking why all this happens and happens
Lam con ! the la con da xa Ba va may em 4 nam 1 thang va 2 ngay roi , su thuong yeu^ cua Ba , voi con tat ca da nam sau^ trong TIM cua Ba , cho du den cuoi cuoc doi cua Ba di nua, Ba cung khong^the nao quen^ con duoc dau^ LAM , cu moi nam gan^ den nhung ngay HOLYDAY long Ba vo cung buon , cho du nhung ngay nhu vay thi tat ca moi nguoi ai cung vui ve , va sum hop voi gia dinh , rieng Ba cua con luon luon buon , va nho toi con , bay gio Ba chang biet phai lam gi hon , ngoi day viet vai hang tam su cung con cho do nho nhung va thuong yeu^ con , Lam con … su ra di cua con la niem dau thuong cua Ba , nhung du sao di nua con cung ve^ ben^ CHUA , cho du Ba co thuong yeu^ va nho nhung di nua cung chi la su be nho cua Ba ma thoi^ , Ba chi mong sao tren nuoc TROI con cua Ba lam vui long CHUA va cac THANH , rieng Ba cua con va may em van ok , MAILY van con di hoc them , MAILOAN VA LUONG di lam , Ba van lam cong viec nhu luc con van con song voi Ba , cho du cong viec rat cuc kho nhung no cung giup Ba lo cho cac em cua con an hoc va nuoi cac con lon len , Ba rat vui trong cong viec do , con hay cau nguyen cho Ba va may em con day du suc khoe va viec lam vui ve ,,,,…rieng con hay lam viec vui ve voi CHUA … tuy con khong con ben Ba nua , nhung trong long Ba luc nao xem con nhu dang song ben Ba vay do con … nen nhin thay con vui ve la Ba cung vui ….. da gan het nam 2006 va se den 2007 , Ba chuc con vui ve va vui ve ben CHUA
DADDY CUA LAM^ ALL WAY LOVE YOU AND LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE
Hey,
I’m just sitting here playing Madden and can’t help but to think of all the times we use to play this addictive game. Your spirit is attached to this game I play everyday, I’m glad a new one comes out every year.
Wishing you the best bro! We all miss you!
Daddy love you ! misssss you .
Dear HA XUAN TRUONG Day la website cua con toi ten la chau da pass away 4 nam roi , luc con song rat tot voi ban be va moi nguoi , nen khi mat di , ban be cua lam website nay de nho den va de tam su voi luc co nhung chuyen buon ,vui , toi thay mac gia dinh tat ca nhung ai da vao website nay de tham
DADDY CUA CAM ON TAT CA
Hey wsup Lam. haven’t talk to you for a while and thought i’d drop by to say hi. I’ve been making strides to improve things for myself, but probably still need some help. =) Give me 10% of your motivation bro and I’ll take care of the rest! Your the best Lam and definitely one of my heroes. K Lam, take care bro and i’ll talk to you again sometime.
xin chao tat ca nha toi cung ko hieu ve cai nay la cai gi nen toi muon moi nguoi la nhan lai cho toi bit thong tin ve cai nay nha
Tina and I visited your grave two weeks ago before I left for school at Penn. It was my first time visiting since the funeral. It’s Tina’s first time ever being at your grave. Do you remember Tina? She was your kid at Kairos 3.
I need another favor, Lam. Her mother unexpectedly passed away this morning. Can you welcome her with open arms in heaven? It’s been pretty rough on Tina and her family. Take care, Lam.
Happy late birthday Lam. miss ya.
hehe, sorry about the daisy. the hotlink isn’t working at the moment. anyway, it’s just an excuse for me to leave another “happy birthday” message for you! ^^
Happy 26th Birthday Big Guy! Miss ya!!!
-panda & richard
Here’s a daisy for you. I hope it shows up
Lam con yeu^ cua BA ! 26 nam truoc CHUA da cho con ra doi lam con cua BA , thi con vinh vien la con cua BA , nhung cach day 4 nam CHUA da dem con ve voi CHUA , vi vay BA khong the nao danh voi CHUA nhung trong long BA luon luon co con va trai TIM BA luc nao cung nho va thuong ve con …. Hom nay la ngay 29 thang 8 2006 , this your BIRTHDAY , vao nam do con sinh ra doi trong 1 hoan canh that la kho^? luc ay ba ma con song trong trai ty nan , nhung ba cung co gang lo cho con , va qua den MY , roi moi nam con lon len .. long ba luon tham cam on CHUA da cho ba 1 dua con hien va biet thuong gia dinh , luc nao cung lo cho cac em con ,.. tuy nhung nam thang con lon len ba ma thi lo di lam de kiem tien tao cho con 1 cuoc song day du hon … vi the ma ba khong co thi gio de day bao con lam sao de song . nhung rat may CHUA da giup ba lo cho con va cac em con nen nguoi … ba rat vui … nhung su vui mung do khong duoc keo dai thi cach day 4 nam con da bo gia dinh de tim 1 noi ma CHUA da dinh sang cho con , long ba nhu chet di , vi su ra di cua con da lam cho tinh than ba sup do , roi tu do moi viec gia dinh minh thay doi …..
LAM con ! thuong va nho con nhieu lam ,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU LAM
Happy birthday Lam. We all miss you very much especially Dozer!
happy birthday! miss you much!
xoxoxox
Happy Birthday Lam! Miss and Love Ya very much!
hi lam,
~just thinking about you, so i thought i’d drop in to say miss you!
*hugs*
Lam con yeu thuong cua Ba ! da gan 4 nam con roi xa gia dinh , con chi ve tham Ba 3 lan sau khi con roi gia dinh , the roi may nam nay khong biet vi sao ma con khong co ve tham Ba nua , Ba buon va nho con nhieu lam , neu con nho den Ba xin phep CHUA ve tham Ba di con … Ba nho con nhieu lam , nhung Ba chang biet phai lam sao bay gio con oi ! co nhung dem Ba nam 1 minh cu cho doi con ve tham Ba , nhung hoan toan khong thay cho du 1 giat mo , Ba nghi chac con rat ban lam viec cho CHUA nen khong ve duoc , thoi thi tat ca Ba dang len CHUA , mong sao tren nuoc TROI con cua BA duoc vui ve , cho du con dang noi nao di nua trai TIM BA luon luon co con , va no se theo BA suot ca cuoc doi cua BA … chac con cung biet BA ,MAILY va LUONG da move ra ngoai roi , con can nha do MA va MAILOAN dang o , can nha do co rat nhieu ky niem da lam cho BA dau long , gio day moi viec da yen , BA lo lam de lo cho may em con , hon nua phai lo cho doi song nhung nguoi than cua BA ben VIET NAM nua con a , neu con van song voi BA thi tat ca dau co thay doi nhu bay gio , chi tiec la con ve voi CHUA som qua , roi tu do gia dinh cua minh da hoan toan thay doi …. BA ve can nha nay BA van de cho con 1 phong , trong phong van co TIVI va tat ca nhung hinh anh cua con trong do ,.. co nhung dem BA vao do dong cua lai de cho con ve ,.nhung khong duoc vi con khong ve …. khong phai Ba noi ra de trach con dau , BA chi buon va nho con ma thot len nhu vay thoi .. mong con thong cam cho BA ,… BA da ve can nha moi nay da 1 nam 4 thang roi do con … cac em con cung vui ve lam hon nua Ba cung co gang lo cho cac em con …. bay gio MAILY van con hoc them 2 nam nua do con .. sau khi MAILY ra truong UCI xong em di lam duoc 2 nam , MAILY muon di hoc them ,… nen BA da lo cho em con di hoc ..,. con MAILOAN van song ben MA em van di lam binh thuong va LUONG van di lam … the la gia dinh minh da chia ra lam 2 that la tiec qua di , cung gi BA qua tin nguoi ta ma gia dinh minh moi ra nong noi nhu vay , thoi moi viec gi say ra BA nghi con da hieu . .. BA chi tiec la con roi xa BA rat som ,,.. BA chua lo troan trach nhiem cua 1 nguoi lam CHA ma thoi , uoc gi con dau thai lam con cua BA lai thi hay biet may , mong sao nhung gi BA uoc , xin CHUA cho bA ,.. nho den con nhieu lam LAM^ … CAU XIN CHUA LO CHO CON VA GIUP DO CON SAU NAY , BA CUA CON YEU^ CON NHIEU
DADDY ALLWAY LOVE YOU LAM^
dear LAM.tinh co minh doc duoc nhung dong tam su cua moi nguoi gui den cho ban,nhat la noi nho thuong va dau don cua Dang sinh thanh,mot tam long cao nhu nui Thai son ,do la nguoi cha yeu dau cua ban.Minh da khoc khi doc nhung dong tam su do.Khong co noi dau nao bang noi dau khi phai mat di mot nguoi than,cung giong nhu minh,minh cung da bi mat di mot dua em trai than yeu khi vua tron 25 tuoi khi dang chuan bi lap gia dinh,chi con hon vai thang,vay ma em minh cung khong the cho va khong con co hoi de huong cai ngay hanh phuc nhat cua cuoc song lam nguoi,em minh cung da bo ra di mai mai.Lam oi minh muon gui den nhung dong tam su nay den va xin chia sot mot phan noi buon dau cung voi cha ban ,mot nguoi cha da phai bi roi vao noi don dau khi mat di mot dua con.Minh se luon cau nguyen voi Thien Chua luon luon gin giu va ban huong phuoc an dem ban ve huong phuoc Thien Dang ben canh Nguoi . Thao on 2006-08-01
LAM MY GOOD SON ,TOMOROW LUONG RA TRUONG DO CON , DADDY SOOO MISSSSED YOU DADDY VUI NHIEU , VI CAC CON DA HOC XONG , TUY CON DA VE TROI VOI CHUA , NHUNG CON CAC EM CON , MAY EM CON CUNG CO GANG HOC NEN BAY GIO MOI CO KET QUA NHU VAY , TUY DADDY LAM VIEC RAT MET NHUNG CUNG VUI KHI THAY CAC CON CUA DADDY , HOC XONG ROI , NEU CO CON NOI DAY CHAC LA VUI LAM CON OI ! , NHUNG TAT CA NHUNG GI CUA CON DEU THUOC VE CHUA CA ROI DADDY KHONG DAM LAM GI CA , MONG SAO CON HAY NHIN VE GIA DINH MA CAU NGUYEN , DE CAC EM CUA CON CO VIEC LAM VA VUI VE
LAM ! DADDY AND ALL FAMILY MISSSSSSS YOU ! LOVE YOU MY SON , < TIN AND SOMEONE WANT TO COME VISIT LAM THIS IS CEMETARY ADDRESS , < HARBOR REST MEMORIAL PARK > 1625 GISLER AVE , COSTA MESA , CA.92626 PHONE # 714 540 76O2
GO HARBOR SOUTH TOWARD COSTA MESA , AFFTER YOU PASS THE 405 SOUTH FREEWAY, MAKER A RIGHT ON GISLER , IT WILL BE ON YOUR LEFT HAND SIDE
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH WHO STILL LOVE AND REMEMBER < LAM > ALL MY FAMILY ALLWAY THANK ,….
Hi Lam,
It really has been a long time, hasn’t it? So much has happened since I last talked to you. Just like your family, I miss you so much. Hope you can help me find some peace in my life at this point in time. Thank you my cuz.
Hi Lam and family. If it is possible, can someone provide the address to the cemetary where Lam is resting? I haven’t visited in awhile and would like to. Thank you so much.
I so love your website. i wish I have that kind of site. Whatever, gotta go!!!! Hi Hi!
Hi Lam! It’s almost Mother’s Day. You know all of us miss you a lot during times like these. holidays, events, etc. You’re always in our hearts. We miss you so much!
Love you always and always!
Hey Lam, I wish I could be more like you sometimes…
“If Tears Could Build A Stairway,
and Memories A Lane, I’d Walk Right Up to Heaven
and Bring You Home Again.”
Hi Lam,
Wow, it’s been so long….I know throughout high school I never had the chance to even say hi or talk to you. I remembered coming over to your house but for some odd reason we never spoke. Maybe because we never really got introduced. I spent some time w/ your sister Mai and she’s a great person. I know you’re a great person yourself because throughout HS you were always smiling no matter where I saw you. The only thing I remember about you was because I know you were good at volleyball and everyone else I knew loved that sport also. As I was reading your words I realized how most of us had gone through the same thing you have. I just want you to know that even though we didn’t get a chance to be friends you’re in my thoughts n prayers….I know you’ve touched many hearts n I’m glad to know you had such a positive attitude.I know you’re in heaven smiling down watching your family and friends. I also believe what you said is true..I’m not afraid of dying but afraid to leave those I love behind…Well hope to see you again one day…..
HI CUZZO =)! HOW’S HEAVEN TREATIN’ YA?! EVERYTHING IS STILL INSANE DOWN HERE….YOU KNOW WHAT’S GO ON. GADO SAYS “HI”. HE SAYS HE TALKS TO YOU ALOT AT NIGHT =). I REALLY MISS YOU LAM. JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEND YOU SOME LOVE =)! TAKE CARE SWEETIE! LOVE YOU =)!
lam sao de minh dAnh bi gia dc hay
lam sao de minh dAnh bi gia dc hay
lam sao de minh dAnh bi gia dc hay
Yo Lam, you’re still my inspiration cuzin. Fosho, one love.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY GOOD SON , LAM EVERY NIGTH DADDY LAY DOW TO GO TO SLEEP ,DADDY ALWAYS HOPING THAT YOU WOULD COME IN TO MY DREAMS , DADDY LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TOOOOOOOO SOOOOO MUCH ,
Lam – HAPPY VALENTINES DAY! I LOVE & MISS YOU VERY MUCH!
LAM MY SON , ONLY TELL YOU DADDY LOVE YOU ALL MY HEART , BUT YOU KNOW WHAT THE TRUTH IS …
DADDY NEEDED YOU MORE THAN YOU NEEDED ME
THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR TIME WITH US
DADDY LOVE YOU ALL AND SOOOOOO MUCH
hi! Lam!
I really dun know who you are but i met this website by chance and of course I dun know if you are meeting obstacles. anyway, let me pray for you, and have a good day
LAM CON ! DADDY DA VE ROI , BA DA DI GAN 3 TUAN BEN VIET NAM , VUI LAM VI BA GAP LAI CAC CHU CAC CO ^ CUA ? CON , CAC EM CUA CON NUA , NEU CON CON CHAC CON SE VE THAM MOI NGUOI
DADDY CUA CON
Hi Lam… long time reader first time writer. To this day I have been comparing people I come in contact with to see if anyone’s aura compares to yours. Not even close! Miss you. Hope you are doing well. Say “Hi” to my dad for me and also to all of my relatives. I just came back from Vietnam to visit our mother country… it’s beautiful. It still needs a lot of work but slowly it will be great for the underpriviledged (sp). Please pray for them. Miss you… miss what we had… I’m thankful for all the times I’ve been able to hang out with you whether good or bad. Thank you thank you. You have been an inspiration not only for me but countless of people, family, friends strangers. Ive finally finished fixing my teeth! Can you believe that! Hah! My tooth is resting in your grave… hope you are taking good care of it. Please pray for me so taht I can be as great as you… I want to be an inspiration for others just like you… wanna keep your legacy alive. Until we speak again.
Love,
John
Miss and Love you, Lam.
“From Heaven”
by Devotion ft. Pinay
You left so soon
We didn’t have the chance to say goodbye
But that’s okay..
We know you didn’t want it to be that way
We stood by you when you fought so hard
To come back into our lives
So we all can be happy again
You held on as long as you can
We will never forget you
If it means you have to leave us
To find your happiness
Then take our love with you
Wherever you go.. and don’t you ever forget
To watch over us (we know that you’re there)
To watch over us (your love is everywhere)
Just watch over us
From Heaven
We miss your smile that gave us joy and laughter in our lives
We know one day we will be together once again
We stood by you when you fought so hard
To come back into our lives
So we all can be happy again
You held on as long as you can
We will never forget you
There’s so many of us
That you left behind
But we all know that someday
Soon there will come a time
A time when we will see each other again
And we will be together.. up there in heaven.
Lam – Happy New Year – wish you could have been here to enjoy 2006 w/ us. I had a great time in Vegas w/ your friends. And, amazingly, I had great luck w/ the slot machines this time around. My first ever to win anything in Vegas….. Well, now I see why dad likes it so much. Hee hee… Well, love you and miss you much! Muah!
Love your sister, Ly
NHAN NGAY GIANG SINH
CHUC GIANG SINH VUI VE TRAN DAY HANH PHUC
THNAH CONG TRONG MOI LINH VUC
THANH DAT TRONG CONG VIEC
nhan ngay giang sinh
chuc giang sinh vui ve
tran day hanh phuc
Lam con , cu vao nhung ngay HOLYDAY Ba rat la nho toi con , nho nhung luc con nghi hoc ra shop giup Ba di giao hang , co ngay con di toi 2 lan , Ba nhin con Ba rat la thuong con , mong sao con hoc mau ra truong de di lam , vi Ba biet do la ngay ma con rat mong uoc , nhin thay con ngoan , hoc gioi , Ba vo cung cam on CHUA da cho Ba 1 dua con rat tot nhu vay , roi nhung ngay thang Ba nhin thay con truong thanh , mong sao con tot lanh trong cuoc doi sau nay cua con , hang ngay Ba rat la vui khi nhin ra duoc con da truong thanh , mieng khong dam noi ra , nhung trong long Ba luon luon cam ta CHUA , da cho Ba 1 dua con nhu vay ……. nhung con oi niem vui cua Ba chua tron ven , thi noi dau buon lai den voi Ba va ca gia dinh , khi ma tin buon den voi gia dinh minh , do la luc BAC SI cho gia dinh biet la con da mang 1 chung benh , vo cung nguy hiem nhu vay do con , the la cuoc doi cua Ba nhu da sup do tat ca , Ba cung nhu gia dinh co gang lo cho con , cu tuong lo cho con duoc ngay nao hay ngay nay , nhung cuoi cung CHUA da dua con ve voi CHUA , tat ca gia dinh minh giong nhu 1 con ac mong , CON DA RA DI , CON DA RA DI ROI , CON DA BO LAI TAT CA , con da de lai tat ca nhung gi Ba du dinh cho con , con khong can nua , con da ve voi CHUA ,… de lai biet bao la su thuong nho cua moi nguoi ….. con da bo Ba cung nhu tat ca gia dinh ma ra di , 1 thang con nam tren giuong benh con khong noi duoc 1 loi nao voi Ba cung nhu gia dinh ….. nhin thay con long Ba vo cung chua xot ….. con oi ! con da bo Ba ma di …. niem dau noi nho cua Ba doi voi con het , thi su dau buon khac lai den voi Ba trong gia dinh , nguoi ta da lam cho gia dinh Ba tan nat ……lam cho Ba va Ma xa nhau …. roi sau 11 thang con bo Ba ra di , thi NOI con lai mang 1 chung benh , roi cung bo BA ma di …. chi trong 1 nam thoi ma BA cua con phai chieu biet bao la dau buon , Ba cu nghi Ba se nga quy xuong va se khong bao gio dung len duoc nua , nhung tat ca deu nho LY LOAN AND LUONG , bA CO GANG DUNG LEN DE LO cho cac em con toi ngay khon lon , the roi gio day cu moi lan nho toi con B akhong biet lam gi chi ngoi day tam su cung con
CHUC CON MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEWYEAR
DADDY LOVE YOU ALL
Hi Lam, how are you? it has been quite a long time since I talked to you, but you know that I am always thinking about you, wishing that you were here so I can talk to you. My life has been really difficult lately, I really don’t know what to do. Do you think you can help me out by giving me a sign or something? I really need to make some important decisions but I don’t know where to start. I know I am not saying much but I know you know what I am talking about. As always thank you listening.
Love you
I made a promise to you – this is one I definitely will need your help on. I love and miss you.
CON LAM THUONG YEU CUA DADDY ! HOM QUA LA NGAY GIO CUA CON 3 NAM , TAT CA DEU VUI CA , MOI NGUOI AI CUNG THUONG YEU CON , DEN RAT DONG , RIENG DADDY BUON LAM CON OI , NHO CON NHIEU LAM , THUONG CON VO CUNG , LAU ROI CON KHONG VE THAM DADDY , CO LE CON DA DUOC CHUA AN BAY , NEN CON SE DUOC VUI VE SONG BEN CHUA , LUC NAO DADDY CUNG NHO TOI CON < LAM DADDY LOVE YOU >
Hey Lam, it’s been 3 years since you’ve been gone now. Wow…time goes by so fast. My parents are in Vietnam now, because my mom’s dad recently passed away on tuesday. My family is in a depressing mode. Although I never met my grandpa, his death reminded me of you. I see my mom cry and my dad cry. I cried also when my mom held the phone so i could talk to him. It hit me when he didn’t reply..it’s too late..he’s passed on. So if you see him, take care of him. He’s old and weak. Tell him that I really wanted to meet him, but I just didn’t have a chance. Thanx. XOXO…Vi..your cousin
The Miracle of Friendship
by Author Unknown
There is a Miracle called Friendship
that dwells within the heart
and you don’t know how it happens
or when it even starts.
But the happiness it brings you
always gives a special lift
and you realize that
Friendship
is God’s most precious gift.
Lam,
I miss you, and I thank you for being such a great friend to me. You will NEVER be forgotten.
Your buddy,
PanDa
November 11 —- It’s like we’re all in that hospital waiting room again. Our entire family was together again. We all sat patiently waiting never expecting the worse was yet to come. The doctor walked in and we all stood up at once. He was blunt. With a strong and stern look on his face, he said “I’m sorry, he’s not going to make it. It’s come back bigger and stronger.” The whole room shook around me and then I heard nothing. Looking around I could see each person breaking down one by one. Grown men were not ashamed to allow others to see them fall apart. Others were in shock, eyes wide and paralyzed. The tears streaming down their faces was their only movement.
I still denied it. I didn’t what the doctors said. At that very moment, I still believed you were going to make it. Even when I stood there watching your life line go flat and the nurses attempting to revive you, I really believed you weren’t going to leave.
And then……… you were gone.
The pain that I felt in my heart at that very moment was one that was new to me. An emptiness I never felt before. You were gone and I knew it. Because it was the first time that I cried in front of you and you didn’t wipe my tears. You could never NOT CONSOLE any of us if you saw us crying. I knew that if you were standing in my shoes at that very moment and watched all this unfold before your eyes, you be the first to comfort. You always knew what to say and if not, the look on your face was comforting enough.
That pain I felt hasn’t gone away since. I don’t know when I could just think about you and not cry. Growing up, you were my partner – Everything that I experienced for the first time in my life as a child, you were always the person to witness it: sleeping in the “scary” room w/out parents or walking to Monroe Elementary on the 1st day of school in 1st grade. Even then, I always wanted you to believe that I was tough like you but in reality, I was always leaning on you. You would distract me by saying anything that came to your mind. The long walk to school soon became short adventures. Remember when we refused to let mom and dad drive us to school when it was raining? We both had our own umbrellas and fought through the “hard winter storm” as we made it to “safe grounds” together. I loved mornings then. You were the kind of brother who always tried to keep imagination in us – cause you loved the genuine emotional reaction. Gosh Lam, thinking about all those little times when it was just me and you is such a trip.
I really believed that every big moment in my life, you were going to be standing right there for me to lean on. It’s been tough these past couple of months w/out you here to lean on to guide me through this experience I’m now forced to face on my own. This is the first time that I’m facing something on my own and you no “Lam” to lean on. It’s really been tough. But I’m doing ok and I’m going to try my best cause I know you can see me. Please don’t let me fail or get weak –
I miss you so more than words can express. XOXO
Hey Lam! how are you, Luv? Just a few more hours and everyone in our relative will gather at your parent house and prays for you. Hope you’ll be there to visit us, because everyone in our family missing you a lot. This year have been tuff for my family. It’s seems like no one get a long and have their own separate ways of everything. Everyone in my family always think that what they do are did was right and no matter how big or small the problem really is. They never seems to agreed on anything at all. To conclusion the problems never solved and built more conflicted to one others. No one really communicate in my family anymore. I realized life is getting more difficult each day and good times can only be in my memories. Lam, I know life is more meaningful than just this. Help our family get through this tuff times and help us find our road back home.
Luv always, Linh!
Hey Lam, it’s been a very long time since I wrote to you. First and foremost, I want you to know that just because I don’t write doesn’t mean that I don’t think of you. There is always a place for you in my heart and I know you know that. I still remember today, three years ago like it was yesterday. I have been thinking about you so much. I’ve been thinking about a lot of things….! I wish so bad that you were here. You were always so genuine to me and I want you to know I will never forgot who you were. Always and forever………
Hey Lam! Miss ya hun. We’re all getting together this Friday for you. Love you. Come visit me in my dreams when you have time k?
Lam – please help me through these rough times in my life. Let me see what’s best for me and our family. Help me see that this life has more to offer and to find happiness within it. XOXO
LAM CON DA GAN TOI NGAY GIO THU 3 CUA CON , LONG BA BUON OI LA BUON , LUC NAO CUNG NHO TOI CON , NEU CO DIEP VE THAM BA CON NHE , BA LUC NAO CUNG NHO VA THUONG CON , LUON LUON CHO CON VE THAM BA
CHUC CON VUI VE DADDY ALL WAY LOVE YOU LAM
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU LAM DADDY
DADDY LOVE YOU
sup lam, haven’t stop buy to say hi in a while.. well you know what sup, you’ll always be missed. love you lam
Whats goin’ on bro…. just wanted to drop on by and see how the site was doing… we still all think about u and talk of you from time to time…. still can’t believe you’re really not gonna be coming by anymore….. ur always in our thoughts!
Hey Lam,
Like everybody else, I always miss you… Goodnight.
Hi Lam!
It’s been a long time…I not sure what to say…I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you tonight. When I think of you, it puts a smile on my face…all the memories that you gave me. Anyhow, I just wanted you to know that I haven’t forgotten about you and that I still think of you…
hey lam,
It’s been a long time since i wrote to you. i just wanted to remind you that i haven’t forgot about you. well, i’m in college now. i’m going to gwc..but tranferring to UCI. Well my family misses you a lot especially DUY. he tells me he thinks of you all the time. Keep watching over our families. LOVE ya MISS ya.
Vi
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU < LAM > WE LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH LAM^ , ALL STILL MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU TOO,
< HAPPY BIRTHDAY 25 YEARS LAM^>
ALL FAMILY SENT TO YOU , LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE AND MISSSSSSSSSSSS YOU TOOOOOOOOOO
LAM CON ! LAU ROI BA IT GOI THU CHO CON ,SORRY CON NHE , HOM NAY BA CHO CON BIET LA , MAILOAN , DA RA TRUONG ROI , VAY CON XIN CHUA GIUP EM CO VIEC LAM TOT DI CON , MONG CON CO GANG GIUP MAILOAN CON NHE , TAT CA GIA DINH DRU KHOE CA , CHI BUON LA KHONG CO CON O DAY MA THOI , BAY GIO MAILOAN MUON TIM 1 VIEC KHAC GOOD HON NHUNG CHUA CO , CO GANG LAM CON NHE …. GIO DAY BA CHI CON 1 MINH LUONG DI HOC MONG LA NAM TOI LUONG RA TRUONG NUA LA XONG , CO LE LUC DO MAY EM SE GIUP DUOC BA NHIEU HON , THOI CHUC CON VUI VE BEN CHUA
I miss you Lam. Just because I haven’t been writing to you on this site, it doesn’t mean I haven’t been missing and thinking about you. I think and dream about you every night. I really miss you. It’s hard sometimes – you know. life in general – without you. Things have changed so much. Definately not for the better…. I just miss chatting with you. I miss your voice. Your sarcasm, your smile and how you make me realize how silly I can be. You made my life so easy by being my big brother. I really wish I appreciated you more while you were here. I always pictured our life so differently but we should take life as it comes. I just wanted you to know I’m trying as best as I can, for you and our family. I love you. Good night. talk to you in my dreams.
Hey Lam! It’s been a long time since I’ve written to you. I didn’t forget about you… just a lot of stressful things going on in my life lately, but you already knew that. It’s funny how we sometimes forget about the little things that matter in life. Sometimes I wonder if my faith in life was already destined for me or am I making my own faith?! I saw ur dad on my birthday
! He’s such a lovable guy. He seems like he’s doing ok. He wants us to come visit him to see his new house. We’ll probably visit you & him during the holidays. Well, I hope everything is peaches and cream in heaven. I really miss you a lot. Take care Lam & I’ll write to you again soon. Byee cousin 
! XOXO
Lam con ! lau roi Ba khong viet thu cho con , sory con nhe , sao con co khoe khong ? viec lam cho CHUA cua con ra sao ? co vui khong con ? CHUA thuong con nhieu lam phai khong ? vi khi con con song rat nhieu nguoi thuong con BA nghi CHUA se thuong con nhieu , rieng gia dinh minh van khoe , BA va MA da chia tay xong moi nguoi co 1 cuoc song rieng , hien gio MAILY AND LUONG dang o voi BA con LOAN o voi MA , can nha ngay xua MA va LOAN o , BA da mua can nha khac , nhieu khi nam 1 minh BA nho con nhieu lam , nhung BA khong biet phai lam sao , nhung BA nghi lai biet dau bay gio con dang vui ve ben CHUA , LAM con ! may nam nay cung vi nhung con nguoi mieng thi luc nao cung noi ve CHUA nhung trong long ho toan la SATAN da dua gia dinh BA vao con duong dau kho va tan nat , BA nghi lai BA rat la han nhung con nguoi nhu vay , nhat la ten LINH MUC < BUI CONG MINH > ben ngoai thi lam viec cho CHUA nhung ben trong thi lam viec cho SATAN va TINH DUC , da day dua gia dinh BA vao con duong tan nat , va BA rat han nguoi ben canh BA da phan boi BA pha tan het gia dinh cua BA bay gio moi nguoi moi noi , khong duoc doan tu , BA chi tiec suot hon 25 nam BA bo cong gay dung , chi 1 thoi gian ngan thoi ten LINH MUC < BUI CONG MINH > da vao gia dinh minh pha tat ca , uong cong BA vi qua tin loi ten LINH MUC do , nhung ma nho vay BA moi biet < dung bao gio tin vao ai , du la 1 LINH MUC va cung dung tin nhieu ve nguoi ben canh minh du nguoi do la vo minh > that su gia dinh minh da tan nat tu khi con roi xa gia dinh , nhung BA nghi chac con tren TROI con da hieu nhieu roi , hom nay moi viec dau vao do roi , BA chi noi so so cho con hieu ma thoi , thoi BA di lam chuc con vui ve BA CUA CON
dad love you lam
Hi Lam. I know you don’t know me, but I do know some of your siblings. I’m in Joe’s class, so you were a senior when I was a freshman at Los. I was also in journalism with Maily, too. I remember that you were Winter Formal king (or was it prom king? I forget…) your name was on the front page, but your name was misspelled. =/ We should have caught that. Sorry.
Anyhow, I remember going to St. Barbara and seeing you at church with your family. I know Joe always looked up to you, too. When I first heard about your passing I was already in WA for months a few months. It devastated me. Though I really didn’t know you, just the thought of my hs friends losing a close loved one…broke my heart bcs it brought back memories of my grandpa, a fatherlike figure who passed away during my sophomore year. I tried to call Joe, too, but I don’t think I ever reached him.
I browsed through your site after seeing Maily on friendster a few years ago. I cried my eyes out.
I’m sure you’re doing well now. It’s been a while. I was just thinking about my grandpa earlier…and then for some reason you popped into my head…so here I am. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers. Gnite.
DADDY STILL MISS YOU SO MUCH < LAM >DAD LOVE YOU ALL FAMILY MISS YOU < LAM >AND LOVE YOU TOO
Hi Lam,
I was browning the internet trying to find the peace in me and just noticed your website.
One of my friends is in coma and in very critical condition. He has been unconscious for over 3 days. It is kind tough going through the experience. I could not image if he is not around.
By reading your story, I find comfort, encouragement, and believe God will direct him. Thank you!
Kevin Wu
Las Vegas
GNIGHT LAM
In the break of dawn, light hits the dew on the lawn.
Sun rises upon, beds untouched.
The ashes of night, clings onto to dear life,
with the commemoration to embrace the voyage of light.
The distance traveled, the sand we barrowed.
The salty sea of sorrow.
Has washed upon me, upon us, upon we!
The possibility for us to carry on the memories of your passing.
we still miss you Lam, so many things in our daily lives remind us of you. You wont be forgotten…..
Hey Lam, just wanted to say miss ya, GNIGHT.
Hey Lam, I am sitting here at Claire’s computer in LA with your picture on it and it just makes me miss you so much. How have you been? I have not talked to you for a long time but I know you know what has been going on lately. Please pray for your family and watch out for them okay. Love you and miss you very much
DADDY SAY < DADDY LOVE YOU AND HAPPYNEWYEAR>
LAM CON ! DA SAP HET NAM , VA GAN TOI NAM 2005 , CON DA XA GIA DINH HON 2 NAM ROI TRONG LONG BA VA MOI NGUOI AI CUNG NHO VA THUONG CON VO CUNG , RIENG DADDY CU GAN TOI NGAY HOLIDAY NHU VAY BA RAT LA BUON VA NHO TOI CON , KHONG BIET LAM SAO DE NOI RA CHO CON BAY GIO , VAY GAN TOI NGAY HOLIDAY DADDY CHUC CON VA BA NOI VUI VE VOI CHUA VA DUOC CHUA THUONG YEU VA LO CHO CON VA BA NOI
DADDY CUA CON
LAM CON ! DADDY AND ALL FAMILY SAY HAPPY HOLIDAY TO YOU , WE MISS YOU ,WE LOVE YOU , AND YOUR GANDMOTHER TOO
Hey Lam,
Miss you sweetie, its been awhile. I just wanted to say hi.
GOODNIGHT MANG
LAM LOVE YOU ! Lau Roi DADDY Khong Viet Thu Tham Con ,Sorry LAM Con Nhe ! Daddy OK, MAILY, MAILOAN, LUONG And Your MOM all oK , still remember You, DADDY only SAY DADDY LOVE you all my Heart LOVE YOU LAM
Happy Halloween Lam
Good night Lam.
Hey Lam, just wanted to say miss ya…
Geez, I missed your bday, happy belated bday big guy. Food for thought, this is coming from ‘Tuesday’s With Morrie’, “Devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.” These words came from Morrie himself; these words describe you. Love you…
miss you big guy, cant believe youre gone.